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Memory loss can be a normal sign of aging; we all forget some things as we get older. If memory loss is limited to forgetting words occasionally, losing car keys or forgetting small appointments, this may not be cause for concern. If you notice your mom or dad getting increasingly forgetful of critical or everyday things, this may be cause for concern1.
It's not always a sign of dementia
Memory loss can be caused by aging, and exacerbated by other factors that couple with aging. Other factors that can increase memory loss include depression and other health problems, ranging in seriousness from excessive use of alcohol to brain tumors. There are also other types of dementia (with symptoms including memory loss) similar to Alzheimer's Disease, that are in fact treatable and reversible.
13 reasons for concern
If you tell your parents something important one day and they forget it the very next, this may be serious. Other more concerning manifestations of memory loss are getting lost in familiar neighbourhoods, forgetting very common words. There are several typical "turning point situations" where families definitely need to become serious about the possibility that their elderly loved one may be exhibiting signs of Alzheimer's or related dementias.
A fuller list of worrying manifestations related to memory loss is as follows:
- Disorientation while driving or walking in familiar places. Getting lost close to home, in a familiar neighbourhood, is one of the surest signs of the onset of something serious.
- Turning the stove on and forgetting about it. If this happens with any regularity, or if a dangerous situation has arisen, this can be a cause to take mom or dad to a doctor.
- Forgetting simple words that are used every day, or notably odd problems with words, such as inventing new words for common things (e.g., calling a clock "the wall time")
- Sundown Syndrome, especially if mom or dad has uncontrolled angry outbursts.
- Incontinence. There are several classes of this condition: urge incontinence (not related to stress or a lack of mobility) can absolutely be a sign that something serious is going wrong with your mom or dad. Any incontinence should receive medical attention.
- Losing weight can be a sign that they are, in fact, forgetting to eat.
- Behaviour repetitions that indicate a loss of short-term memory. This can include calling repeatedly or asking the same question repeatedly when the answer ought to have been remembered.
- Difficulty performing simple tasks that they ought to be familiar with.
- Impaired judgment, like failing to recognize common personal needs. An example of this is forgetting to put on a coat when it's clearly too cold out.
- Forgetting scheduled items regularly
- Putting things in strange places (e.g., sugar bowl in the freezer)
- Forgetting oft-used or very familiar names, such as pets, grandchildren, or children.
- Withdrawal due to the need to hide confusion.
These are all serious signs that you need to get medical help for your aging parent.
Be aware that your aging loved one may be embarrassed about this loss of memory and thus might not report it honestly. This embarrassment or evasion can delay a proper diagnosis, which will in turn delay treatment that will inhibit the disease's development.
It's well known that drug interventions in Alzheimer's care are more effective earlier on.
If checking into these symptoms leads to a diagnosis, or if you see an increased manifestation of symptoms in a parent already diagnosed with Alzheimer's Disease, it may be time to start investigating Alzheimer's care facilities or home health services near you.
When you're concerned, it's best to discuss things with parents when you yourself are at your calmest. Avoid confrontational language or accusatory tones. Get the opinion of a medical expert. There are other explanations for memory loss, too, of course, including drug side effects, a treatable brain injury, or (again) simply age.
1 helpguide.org/../whats-causing-your-memory-loss
IN-DEPTH REPORTSMemory care retirement communities
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McCowan Retirement Residence - Metta Lifestyles
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One Kenton Place
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The Briton House
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Carp Commons Retirement Village - Verve Senior Living
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Prince of Peace
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The Village of Arbour Trails
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Amica Taunton
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The Village of Winston Park
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Amica Stoney Creek
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The Village of Tansley Woods
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The Village of Taunton Mills
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Magnolia Gardens
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The Village of Wentworth Heights
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New Horizons Tower
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The Village of Humber Heights
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The Village of Erin Meadows
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The Shores of Port Credit - Verve Senior Living
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The Vineyards Residence
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The Village of Riverside Glen
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Wintergreene Estates - Verve Senior Living
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River Ridge Seniors Village
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Amica Little Lake
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Parkland on Eglinton West
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The Village Langley - Verve Senior Living
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The Village of Glendale Crossing
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Don Mills Retirement Residence - Verve Senior Living
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IN-DEPTH REPORTSHome care companies
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